She leans across to grip her shoulder tightly the once, an acknowledgement before she lets it drop back. "It will just be needed until you have yourself secured... after that, I am sure you will be free to make your own choices about what you want."

But until then. "We will go over the proper manners at some length, I know it will be... frustrating at times. But they can be the matter of life and death." She shakes her head. Things that were easy to know when raised to it, but like having to learn English customs, quite probably frustrating to an outsider.

Well, they were all outsiders here.